Two questions that you should ask yourself more often

It’s well known that living the life is not just breathing and surviving, the life is an empty book that we are filling in as years are going by. The fact is that you can write a short, correct and boring story or you can publish a huge encyclopaedia, full of adventures, achievements, mistakes and funny stories. How to get the last one? It’s just about living the life in a more intense way, your life could be a kind of amusement park, going up and down hill, fighting in the mud and enjoying the sky.

Why not?

Living the life in an intense way can be risky and dangerous, but you can take advantage of all the experiences you add for the story of your life, even if they are horrible, you can learn for them and get over. So when you are thinking about doing something or not, it is easier to think: “why not” (in which you are turning your opinion from yes to no) instead of thinking “why should I do” (from no to yes). We are lazy to change our mind, that’s why, the why not spirit takes advantage and it can be the beginning of wonderful stories. If not, you could enjoy trying it, you need to know what is failing so as to appreciate more the success.

Could you imagine reaching the retirement and not to have cool stories to tell to your grandchildren? Come on, what a shitty life! Well, maybe you had an awesome life but you have so weird and awkward stories that are not suitable for children. In this case, probably you had some fun in your life :P

With the “why not spirit”, things will just happen and you will gain many content to your encyclopaedia. Someone will need a huge place to store all volumes :D

Who cares?

The freedom of the people is limited by different chains such as society, family, your couple, culture, friends, law, government, and so on. There are some of them that are not easy to scape, the law and government for example, but others don’t need to be a problem to enjoy our life as much as we want.

A common problem in this field is that we care too much in what people think about us. But should we? The society is full of bad and negative people who are not worthy at all, it is not interesting to be surrounded by so depressed people, and if we are, who fucking cares what they think about us? Just do whatever you want to be happy, the good people will not judge you, they will be there to share many cool moments and not to ruin them.

Happiness should be something that everyone must believe and go for it. The different religions of the world are fighting among them to tell us in what to believe. My advice: believe in whatever you need in order to reach the happiness, but be free to get it easier.

To sum up, I would like to cheer you up not to be influenced by people, just be yourself and don’t be afraid of being different and special, it is a reason why other people will feel envy of you. Nevertheless, you shouldn't do it because of the people but because of you. It is such an amazing goal to feel free and write your own way to the happiness.

I want to underline the fact that the “why not spirit” it is just an attitude, not a rule, so there will be moments in which you will say not. However there will be others in which you will easily say: “Come on, who cares? Let’s do it! Why not?” ;)